Ep. 38 📓 Raised Outside the System: How Unschooling Made Me Allergic to Mediocrity
This episode, I'm answering the questions I get asked quite often, especially now as a mama:
"Did you like growing up homeschooling?" (Well, unschooling, actually. Google it!)
"How did you go to college/make money/not become a reclusive weirdo?"
I share about = how that single, radical choice (shoutout to my brave parents 👋) shaped literally eeeverything about how I live, work, parent and lead now.
No bells. No grades. No tests. I did make my mom buy me a locker tho, so my school was "real". Bc OBVI a locker = true education.
Growing up unschooling gave me the keys to my education and taught me how to be the boss of my own life before I had my first "real job". It showed me what it meant to follow my curiosity, trust my instincts, and build my life around desire instead of obligation. It taught me how to self-boss™ long before I ever ran a biz.
It made me a rule-questioner. A self-trusting, joy-prioritizing, curiosity-fueled little freaky freak, and eventually, an entrepreneur with a strong inner compass. I know it's not for everyone (nor does everyone have the access/priveledge to do so), but I get asked.
We dive into:
What unschooling actually is, and what it isn’t
Why the traditional school system was never meant to support creativity, agency, or aliveness
The complicated paradox of educational privilege (especially now that I’m the one making decisions for my kiddo)
How being unschooled shaped my nervous system, my biz, and my obsession with doing things my own damn way (Virgo much?)
The Workwomb flavor of self-leadership — gentle, intuitive, built around capacity, not performance
The unschooler-to-entrepreneur pipeline (aka why so many of us become biz owners)
Rebossing + reparenting yourself after years of trying to fit in boxes you were never meant for
If you’ve ever felt like the world wasn’t built for your brain…
If you’ve ever been the one asking “why do we do it this way?” while everyone else shrugs…
If you’re in the thick of remembering who you were before the world told you who to be…
This episode is for you! Come curl up with me. This one’s truthy. This one’s a love letter to the part of you that’s always known there was another way.
Mentions + Links from the Ep:
Ep. 34 💥 Creative Unrest & Our Zone of Aliveness: How to Find (and Follow) What Makes You Come Alive
Ep 1 ✌️ The Two Skills That Led Me from Musical Theatre Actress to 6-Figure Business Strategist
Not Back To School Camp (aka my teenhood Hogwarts)
Unschooling lineage: John Taylor Gatto + Grace Llewellyn — thank you for your work in the world!!
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